I am going to be straight forward, honest, and you can either move on or send me an email, I am not going to sugar coat myself or say I have a few extra pounds and then come out looking like I could Trick-or-Treat over the phone...lol.



I am;



-One of the boys (but, if any guy outside the group treats me like one of the boys, he gets put in his place).

-Soft.

-Gentle.

-Romantic (yes, I believe you can fall for someone without even seeing them face to face, as long as the conversations are open and honest).

-Honest to a fault.

-Able to do jeans and a tshirt or an evening gown.

-Military raised (Basically, I know how I want to be treated and will accept NO less).

-Best friends with my Dad (but, NOT a "daddy's girl". I have worked for who I am and what I am".





I am NOT;



-A barbie doll.

-Making a 6 figure income.

-Attached.

-A mother (but, I wouldn't mind being one).

-Looking for a one night stand, FWB, phone sex or any of the other b*llsh*t sicko things people look for on here, I am looking for a REAL man who can give REAL time and energy to a relationship.



I like;



-To always be treated like a lady, even when I am not acting like one.

-My home, my car, my job, my dog, Guinness, road trips, nice people, tattoos, honesty, love, The Beatles, Karaoke, movies, dancing.





I have a job that is very taxing, I get called in at 3am on an at least bi-weekly basis. I don't mind if you have children, but, please no pyscho ex wives/GFs/etc. Please don't be living with your "ex".



Bonus points if you are/were military. Under 45 please.



Looks do not matter to me in anyway! I am clean, I know how to use soap and water and a comb and a toothbrush, please know how to do the same, that's all I ask. Also, don't be stuck up or email me and say looks don't matter, then, we meet and you find one little flaw in me and bail, if you are that shallow, don't waste your time or mine.



I am getting the feeling my ad sounds harsh, but, I figured I would just give the facts.



My head is for driving and banking, my heart is for everything else.



Love to hear from you.